Written by Dennis Harvell The Year I Finally Arrived at Myself There was a time when I didn’t want to remember anything — not the losses, not the trauma, not the weight I carried quietly for years. I thought remembering would break me all over again. What I didn’t understand then was that healing doesn’t… Continue reading The Year I Finally Arrived at Myself
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Outgrowing Friendships
Written by Dennis Harvell Outgrowing Friendships Outgrowing a 20-year friendship is a grief most people don’t talk about. It’s the kind of loss that doesn’t come with a funeral, but it still requires a burial. You don’t just lose the person — you lose the version of yourself that once needed them. But part of… Continue reading Outgrowing Friendships
“I’m Done”
Written by Dennis Harvell I’m Done I’m Done. Being “done” isn’t an outburst. Anger is loud; “done” is silent. I’ve spent years being the foundation for people who wouldn’t offer a single brick in return. I’ve been the bank, the therapist, the safety net — and the silence that comes when you stop giving is… Continue reading “I’m Done”